Aria at one day old, looking at black & white patterns in hospital bassinet
I got to meet my beautiful daughter this week.
Aria had a safe and healthy delivery at 41 weeks and 1 day gestation. She was 7 lbs 6 oz and 19 inches long.
Snuggling my babies
We got home from the hospital Tuesday afternoon and spent most of this week cuddling and resting and getting to know each other.
Big smile at 5 days old
And taking lots and lots and lots of pictures.
The boys love her. We didn't get much school work done with them this week but I'm totally ok with that.
This is what went on in terms of our early learning program this week:
What we got around to in the first week early learning program:
- Lots and lots of visual stimulation (well-lighted rooms, many high-contrast patterns available during all waking hours)
- Tummy time on parent or brother's chest
- Face to face conversation
- Stimulating the grasp reflex, babinski reflex, & startle reflex
- Listening to Thaïs: Méditation by Jules Massenet
Black & white pattern board
VISUAL STIMULATION
At birth babies are practically blind, and their vision only grows by using it.
This little girl certainly used her vision a lot this week.
Looking out a window, 3 days old
With my other kids, during the first maybe 1-2 days after birth I could only get them to open their eyes if the lights were dim.
With Aria, from the moment she was born she was drawn to the light of the big hospital window. She had no problem opening her eyes in bright daylight and looking around at everything from the day she was born.
Wide eyes at black & white picture, 4 days old
We have lot of different high contrast (black & white) patterns for her to look at, and it's really incredible seeing her eyes light up and get as big as saucers when she sees them.
If I set up a pattern anywhere near her she will turn her head towards it and just stare at it and focus on it for quite a long period of time.
Checking out pattern on car seat, 3 days old
It is so amazing witnessing the drive to learn and grow and develop that even the tiniest babies have. Watching her use her eyes in such a determined way at literally every single waking moment.
She's not content to just stare happily off into space. She literally seeks out things that she is able to see (newborns can only see things that are very high-contrast), then intensely focuses on them trying to see them better.
So inspiring and profound.
AUDITORY STIMULATION
Maybe a half dozen times this week, we've listened to Thaïs: Méditation by Jules Massenet from "The 50 Greatest Pieces of Classical Music", usually on repeat.
Theoretically we would listen to it almost every time she's sleeping, but it's still a habit I'm getting used to.
We will be listening to a new musical piece each week from the above-mentioned album for her first year.
Stimulating the grasp reflex
REFLEXES (Auditory, tactile, & manual)
During the newborn stage of the infant stimulation program, you simply get to stimulate baby's built-in reflexes, which is basically playing with their little fingers and toes.
I love this stage because it requires so little effort and those tiny little digits are so irresistible.
Stimulating the babinski reflex
When I think about it, often while nursing or just playing with her, I will stimulate her grasp reflex (holding her little hands), her babinski reflex (running my fingers across her little feet), and her startle reflex (clapping two blocks together to make a sharp noise, which elicits the startle reflex).
Falling asleep during tummy time, 7 days old
MOTOR DEVELOPMENT
Although Doman's books recommends using the infant crawling track right from birth, I learned with my last baby that it's really not a good idea to start the crawling track until the umbilical cord falls off.
Otherwise the cord will get irritated when baby moves around, bleed, and take longer to fall off. Which could theoretically also lead to infection.
Tummy time on big brother, 6 days old
So in the meantime, while waiting for the cord to fall off, we have done tummy time while laying on someone's chest. This gives her the opportunity to lift up her head and build neck and core body strength.
Big brother teaching shapes, 2 days old
All in all we had a good first week. It was not all picture perfect, particularly the day after we got home from the hospital and sweet baby decided she needed to nurse practically all day.
I might have had a moment of panic convincing myself that I was never, ever going to be able to get anything done, ever again, and oh my gosh I just want to take a shower, how am I going to live if I never shower again?
A little dramatic, I know.
They're adorable, but life is NOT always this picture-perfect
And my older kids might have driven me a little bit crazy many a times throughout the week, particularly a very ornery, limit-pushing three-year-old who is full of sweetness, snuggles, and spit.
My nine-year-old switches rapidly back and forth between the most amazing, caring, helpful big brother who is anxious to "teach" Aria everything and hold her all the time and help with his little brother and around the house, to full-blown attitude and drama over the silliest things.
But I guess being a preteen is kinda rough, so I'll cut him a little slack. Because he really is the most amazing brother and son and person, hands down.
Next week I plan to start the crawling track (her umbilical cord fell off this weekend), some of the balance activities, and the flash light stimulations. Those are the things I didn't get to this week.
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